I am a very weird person full of surprises and mystery. I tend to do things which most people would not do, let alone have the thought of doing them in the first place. Just the other day, I did something that may shock my partner to the core if she happens to hear about it. I called a London escort for tips on how to make my girlfriend orgasm during sex! Before you ask the obvious question, no, I am not a virgin. But I have never dated before. Come to think of it, in my twenty eight years, I have never dated or have a stable relationship. I have always considered having a girlfriend a bother I can comfortably live without. After all, I could easily access everything a girlfriend could offer from my experienced London escorts, right?
Things changed earlier this year when I met Charlotte in a work related event taking place in London. We are both Londoners by birth and we both work in the big city. She is a paralegal in some big law firm and I am a real estate agent. I cannot exactly put my hands on what Charlotte gave me but from the minute she was introduced to me, I was smitten. I knew right then that I had to claim her. Make her mine. It all come out to my advantage when it turned out that she was single and after a few dates, we became an item and we started dating. Our relationship is now on its seventh month and we are still on the “peck on the cheek and hugs only” phase. We have not yet taken our intimacy beyond that.
From our previous discussions, I highly suspect that Charlotte is very much inexperienced in intimate stuff. Unlike the London escorts who I have previously booked who were soaked in confidence and experience, Charlotte is quite shy. I could very well be her first. What bothers me about her obvious lack of experience is that she may not enjoy our intimacy when the time to take our relationship to the next point comes. I have heard and read stories about women complaining that their men do not know what it takes to make them orgasm during sex. And if they know, they do not bother to put it to practice. Therefore, in order to make our times together mutually satisfying and make sure that I gave my girlfriend a mind shattering orgasm, I had to do what a man got to do. I called a London escort for tips.
Among my most frequent escorts in London, Cate seemed to be the most experienced. She was also the one I was well acquainted with and so, when I gave her a call the other day, she was only too willing to help me. Below are the tips that this veteran London escort gave me.
According to her, the reason why most women do not orgasm is because they have little to no foreplay. Unlike men, she told me, women are wired differently. They take longer before their body get ready. Extended foreplay ensures that her body catches up with her mind and that her girl parts are readied. She advised that to give my girlfriend an orgasm, I had to engage her in about twenty to thirty minutes of foreplay. She also told me that kissing her folds, massaging her back and nibbling on her ears and neck was a guarantee for orgasm.
To be very vocal.
Another tip I sourced from her is that being mute throughout the intimacy period is a total turn off for most women. She told me that most women like it when their men are being expressive and vocal. She reassured me that it does not matter if your words are coherent or sensible at all. She told me to just make sounds and moans and by doing that, I could be sure that my girlfriend would be on her path to an orgasm like she has never had before. She insisted that there was no need to be embarrassed and that every person is allowed to mumble everything, no matter how dirty it is. As much as I kept on telling my girlfriend how I am feeling that very time, and kept on rumbling constantly, then chances of my mission to make her climax becoming fruitful were very high.
Manipulate her psych.
I had never taken Cate for an expert in intimacy but her insight and knowledge in the field was very impressive. She explained to me that the place where an orgasm forms is inside the brain. According to her, if I wanted to be completely sure that my girlfriend orgasms, I had to take my
time and psychologically prepare her. To set her in the mood, I was advised that I had to drown her in compliments as I exclaimed on how attractive she is, and how I cannot wait to get her over the moon. Because I had audited a few psychology units in college, I think I am very capable of doing this.
Although Cate gave me other wonderful tips, I find the above three to be the most practical. When I was exclusively booking London escorts, I never had to worry about the things that I worry about now that I have a girlfriend. With London escorts, I was the main focus and all my London escorts did everything with an aim of making sure that I was totally satisfied. Now, the case is different. I now have a stable girlfriend who I love so much and who I want to give the best. My main focus is now not squarely on me, but on her. I want our first intimate encounter to be totally unforgettable, as well as the others to follow. I do not want to be one of those men who are selfish and who do not care whether their women climax or not. I want my girlfriend to be as satisfied as I am, and with those tips that I got from Cate the London escort, I am sure that my girlfriend is in for some wonderful times!