Have you ever wanted to have a girlfriend for the intimacy of the relationship sans all the emotional drama that comes with it? Then you are not alone. Many people want to come home after a long day at work to a sexy companion and have an intimate conversation to unwind. However, they simply don’t have the time to deal with trivial emotional baggages. It is for the benefit of these gents that the curated girlfriend experience has become popular. Professional escorts date you discretely, much like a real girlfriend, only with no strings attached. London escorts make the best professional girlfriends. Not only are they sexy, elegant and have smoking hot bodies, but they are also well versed in the art of conversation. Our highly trained London escorts can definitely be the answer for your need of companionship.
Are you looking for someone who will give you sensations, make you cry out of pleasure and no pain? Are you hunting for someone who will make you feel submissive yet masochistic with her whiplash? So, are you on your way to book a London escort for your first dominatrix or pro-dommes (maybe) session?
Since this will be your first time so here is something which is worth reading for you shared by Heathrow escorts on her personal experience. And it is not a one-time experience but something in general which happens always. It will only help you in getting rid of your fear since this will be your first session.
She talks about guys who come to them for the first time and in fact, most of the guys that come to them are the newbies, they are brand new, have sweaty palms and are very very nervous. However, so is not the case when they leave. They are happy souls at that time. They are calmed, smiling, proud and glad that they took the decision to do it and did it. They wish that they would have done it sooner because they are surprised how easy it is and not at all scary as it looks in those videos. These guys have seen those videos on various platforms where the kinky woman dressed in black leather doing bizarre stuff before making love to a guy? And they get frightened by it, after all, so many mean & terrifying stuff is shown in those videos. But deep down they admire the London escorts or other. And since they have been doing this for so long, the escorts become like an untouchable celebrity eventually making more difficult for the boys to make a booking. However, they forget that she and other girls like her are human too. These escorts laugh, crack jokes and are down to Earth just like any other person. Things that they experience in the hands of the London escorts are the same that any person has in any other field. In other words, it is just another service.
In fact, there is always a first time for everyone and so was for these kinky girls. They were new and nervous too back then.
The escorts not only meet newbies, young boys who have this goal of taking up dominatrix session before they begin their college but also middle-aged men with their mid-life crisis and who are not happy with their long and kink-less marriage. Well, whatever their age, reasons or problems but they are always happy that they took initiative and explored this secret world.
Here are few questions for you that you should ask (and because they will help you) before you book your first dominatrix session with a London escort:-
· What am I looking for?
Few guys are very clear and focused what they want or desire out of the session but are still figuring out.
So, if you are one of them who don’t know what to expect from their session with dominatrix then you are on the right page.
Prepare a list of those things that you are interested in, the one you want to try. Do not leave anything just because you think that pre-dommewon’t do it. The list is only for your pleasure.
Also, you never know she might try things with you that are not on your list and you get blown away by them.
· How do I choose a great London escort?
You are ready with the list of general ideas. Now all you have to do is find the right mistress for you.
A good mistress will have an informative website where you will find all the information about her. The website will include the interest list as well and you should look for that it has the same interest as that of yours. Give her brownie points if the website has videos or photos of her doing the acts. With your session with pro-dommes, do not expect sex acts. You will rarely find dominatrix doing that. And until & unless she is a known Dominatrix, you should not be giving any advance.
· How do I contact a dominatrix escort?
Don’t sound like a nervous wreck on phone or don’t end up in sending her hundreds of emails. Just make the list of questions and do go through the website properly so that you do not end up asking the same thing already available on her website.
Don’t keep her on phone all the time otherwise, she will think you are just another creep wasting time. Be as professional as possible.
You can either email her or call her. In the former case, don’t end up writing a novel. In fact, in both the cases just ask your questions, tell your interest and keep the conversation short and to the point.
· What are the things that she should know in advance?
She wants to know your limit which you might yourself don’t know! But you can just tell that you don’t want her to make you bleed or that golden showers are not your thing. You are fine being verbally degraded but only to a limit which means no joke on weight, race, religion or age. Tell her if you are in for whip marks? And last but not the least if you have any kind of health problem.
· What to expect and how to prepare?
Give a confirmation call to her an hour before or so to ensure you are still on board. Hygiene is another important thing. Chew breath mint, use deodorant, etc.
Do not flake on her. Until and unless you are sure of a session, don’t do bookings. It is very rude to refuse to show up at the last minute.
If you wish to cancel your session then inform her a night before or in the morning or sooner the better and give her a believable reason (even if you make one). If you will show some sense of responsibility, she might give you another chance.
Ordinarily, most clients book escorts who are much younger compared to them. However, it is not uncommon at all seeing a young man seeking the services of a mature escort. I am one of these men. Unlike my peers who think that young escorts are the top of the game, I personally prefer mature escorts because I find them sexier and more sophisticated. And in case you are wondering, I have no mommy issues. It is just the way things are. You know…like the way some people prefer chocolate while others prefer ice cream… If you are wondering why a young man like me would rather go after a MILF and not an escort who could easily pass as a high school girl, here are my reasons…
Nothing surprises or shocks a mature escort.
Throughout her days in the escorting industry, she has heard and listened to every plea, request and excuse used by her clients. Nothing shocks or surprises her. She was probably already in the industry long before you were born and she has seen it all. Experience has taught her better that her clients can be unpredictable. Because she expects everything unexpected, she rarely gets caught off guard or phased out. If you want to experience a new fetish, she will be there to guide you throughout it all. No matter how dark your fetishes are, she will not judge you or think less of you. She has met so many like you before and she knows that clients have a lot of layers to them.
They are experts and masters on what they do.
Experience is said to be the best teacher, right? If you wanted to learn about something new, would you go to a veteran or to a newbie? Mature London escorts have been escorting for much longer compared to the younger broads who may have joined the industry just recently. They are highly discreet which means that you can pour your dirty secrets to them without fear of being exposed. With her many years of experience, a mature escort can read you the way you can read a book. They know what indicators and pointers they should look for in order to determine if they are satisfying their client. With her expertise, she will give you new wonderful sensations that you have probably never experienced.
Mature escorts are kinder and more compassionate.
Over the years, mature escorts have gathered enough patience and empathy. If you are shy and inexperienced, or insecure and hesitant, she can patiently entice you to get out of the shell you have encased yourself in for some great experience. They are not like most young escorts who are extremely impatient with no time for amateurs.
A great learning experience.
By seeking the services of mature escorts, I have learnt a few tricks from them that have helped me in improving my game. The problem with most young men is that they think they know and have it all. You never know how wrong you are about this until you meet a MILF who knows what should go where when and why. A mature escort has spent her many years in the industry learning new things every new day. She knows how to make it mutually pleasing and satisfying. She knows what works and what should never be tried because it does not work! Compared to her younger counterparts, her knowledge of the male anatomy is massive. She knows the location of every erogenous zone. Trust her to bring back to life nerves that you never previously thought you possessed.
Mature escorts are just sexy!
The fact that they may sport a few wrinkles and have breasts that may not be as perky and firm as they were once does not hinder their sex appeal. Their unabashed levels of confidence, sense of humor and comfort in their own body is enough to blow away any young and hot-blooded heterosexual male!
More grounded and realistic.
Unlike young escorts, mature escorts are not as petty and they are not easily offended. They are good at putting up with a client, no matter how much of a pain the client is!
Helps boost your confidence.
Mature escorts appreciate your youth better. They complement you on your amazing body looks as they praise your virility and stamina, unlike younger ones who take the beauty of youth for granted.
I have been with my boyfriend for over five years now. Our sex life has been great and I could not ask for more. Every time we are together, it is a guarantee that we will end up in bed. Our libidos match and we enjoy almost everything in bed. We have tried threesomes with escorts, and we found that escorts in London were the best for this. We are both big funs of oral sex, a little bit of role play now and then and when we shag, we do it in a dozen possible positions- missionary, doggie… you name it and we have probably tried it. He is the most sexually compatible partner I have ever had, and I am a thirty one year old woman. If I had been asked about a month ago if there was anything my boyfriend and I had not tried in bed, I would have confidently answered with a no. But my boyfriend tends to disagree. He obviously has other ideas… He just asked me for anal sex!
For the past one month, he has been asking for it incessantly. In fact, not a day passes without him bringing this topic up. At first, I thought that he was only joking and I brushed him off by saying,” Hell no! That is so gay!” I even went further and explained to him that as much as I believe that everyone should have whatever floats their boat, as long as they are hurting no one, anal sex was simply not for me. I even gave him a my permission to find a consenting croydon escorts to have anal sex. I told him in no uncertain terms that I was simply not into it. I mean, I may be a freak in bed and there are probably a million things I would do in pursuit of an orgasm but anal does not simply make it to the list. I understand why the thought of a dick up the bum may be appealing and fulfilling when done between men but to a woman, I just do not get the appeal (or more specifically, I did not at that time). I also did not want to do something I did not fully want to, just to make him happy. I also did not want him to be left unsatisfied.
What I did not understand is that before then, he really seemed satisfied with everything we did in bed. The idea of anal sex did not get to him until one of his buddies got it from his girl and he started bragging about it to his boy squad. What should I do? It has gotten so extremely hard for us to maintain our previous connection. It is this fear that our relationship was on the verge of failing if I did not give in to his request that I decided to confide to one of my closest girlfriends about my dilemma.
If I had expected her to discourage me from giving it a try, then I was totally mistaken. Turns out that she and her boyfriend have been going on at for over half the time they have dated. She told me that she had also been completely spooked out when her boyfriend had first broached this topic to her. She even went ahead and reassured me that I had nothing to worry about and that this was just another milestone for our relationship. Stated below are some of the things she advised I do should I decide to give anal sex a try.
-Prepare thoroughly by ensuring that I am properly clean “down there”. This, she told me, could be taken care of by five minutes of douching!
-Try and practice with some sex toys before the actual act with my man. She insisted that this would help me train my sphincter muscles to relax on command.
-To use lots of lube since the anus has no means of self-lubricating. I have also done some research on this and I can completely understand why she highly advised not to go at it “dry”.
-To fully relax during the act and advise my boyfriend to be slow and patient.
As I am writing this, I am now more confident that although our sex life has never been dull, anal sex may serve to spice up things a little bit. If it turns out that I do not enjoy it, then I at least would be contented that I had given it a try. After all, I have never been shy when it comes to trying out new things!