The business of escorting has been in existence for as long as time. Although it was not as popular as it currently is, people have always desired companionship, and the easiest bet is to get an escort if you are not currently in a serious relationship. In the western countries, escorting has been on an ever-rising trend in the last couple of years. This is largely due to the fact that most western counties are fairly liberal and they do not view the practice of buying sex and/or companionship as immoral or as a taboo. However, though many escorts do not shy away from disclosing what it is they do for a living, that is, escorting, this field is still a mystery to many. From questions like why people escort to questions like how much do escorts make on average, it is evident that there are still thousands of questions that outsiders have concerning the practice of escorting. Overall, many escorts will agree that the question that they get frequently asked is: Is it possible for an escort to have and enjoy a meaningful relationship while still working as an escort? If you have been asking yourself this question, and looking for an answer to it, then keep on reading this article. It explains how and what escorts and their partners can do to make their relationship work without having to quit from their job.
There are dozens of reasons why people become escorts. Some do it for financial needs while others do it just for fun. Others do it out of curiosity while for others, it is a combination of all the above. Regardless of the reason why these women choose to escort, one thing is for certain: they are people, just like you and me. They face the same issues that the world presents to all of its inhabitants. They are thus very capable of maintaining long lasting monogamous relationships. The only thing required is their willingness and a willing partner. So, how exactly can a relationship flourish if you are dating an active escort?
Be open about it.
Like they say, communication is very useful and very important in any relationship. If you are a London escort, you should be outright and very forthcoming about your profession. Always tell your partner about your line of business before you get into a relationship with them. This way, they can decide for themselves if they are in or out. Keeping this a secret and away from them will only guarantee you future problems. A secret can be kept only for too long. If you volunteer this information and let your partner be a willing participant, then you can rest assured that your relationship will work out just as good.
Escorting is very different from real life relationships. While escorting is primarily done for financial gains or just for fun, being in a relationship involves feelings and emotions. Your woman may not care for her clients after her time with them is over, but she may care deeply about you as her partner. Always strive to make her feel like her normal self again. Give her enough time to adjust from one sexual and work environment to the other. This may at times mean having to backseat your desires. Do not make the mistake made by many by assuming that just because she is an escort, she has no right to say no to your sexual advances. Regardless of her line of work, she has every right to say no to sex. Having her consent will go a long way in cementing your relationship. It will assure her that you care and respect her. These are the most important ingredients in love’s recipe.
Do not oust them.
There are many escorts who may not be willing to discuss their line of work with other people. This is mainly because they may be judged because some people still treat escorting as a form of a taboo. An active escort is capable of having a strong relationship if their partner is discreet and trustworthy. Under no circumstance should you tell anyone what she does without getting her permission first. It is entirely upon her to decide who gets to know and who does not. If she trusts you enough to tell you about this part of her life, the last thing you should do is betray her trust. Breaching trust is one sure way of dooming your relationship.
Do not pressure them in to quitting.
Many escorts are adults who are capable of making their own decisions. One sure way of killing a relationship is by forcing your partner to do something that they are not willing to do. Remember that it was their decision to get in to escorting. They will quit when the right time comes. Do not be one of those people who try to “save” escorts from their line of work. This is highly condescending and it shows your total lack of respect towards her both as your partner and as a human being. If she has had a terrible day at work, do not use this as an excuse to convince her to stop escorting. Rather, when she is having a hard time, give her a shoulder to lean on. Your relationship will work just as fine.
Be on their team.
If you are dating an active escort, your relationship can only work if you firmly stand with them. Just because she is seeing other people does not mean that she is immoral or evil. Support her and stand with her even when she is on the receiving end of disparaging remarks. You are the one she cares for and the least that you can do is affirm her humanity and self-worth in this world that treats escorts as pariahs.
London escorts are just like you and me. The only major difference is that they see and (may) get sexually involved with more than one person at any given time. Contrary to the popular belief, London escorts are very capable of maintaining healthy, long lasting relationships! If you are falling for an escort, go ahead and pursue them. You will be pleasantly surprised.